☼Dear Hearts, be on guard against that smooth talker, Blame. He’s highly adept at making you think the problem lies elsewhere. He’s highly adept at making you believe that you are a victim. We do not have to be victims. Blame tempts you to look outside of yourself, your thoughts, your actions, your inactions. When Blame walks in, don’t be so easily seduced. Look at yourself and be honest with yourself. What role did you play or did not play in regards to the situation in question? What red flags did you consciously or subconsciously choose to overlook?