8/27/14 Entry (Closed Hearts)

Sometimes, it's rather tempting to mirror someone else's closed heart. But I've found it doesn't feel good. So, I have to take conscious steps to proceed in a manner that does feel good. Even if my first "instinct" is to reflect back the pain, and regardless of how long I hold on to this "instinct", somehow, someway, I have to remember I can always choose again. For my peace of mind, I have to choose again.